Often we talk about the next BIG thing; making a huge move, creating a viral post, or making waves in the community we work or live in.
I am guilty of wanting to run BIG events like the
Global Student Leadership Conference. I think it is an inspiring thing to bring together so many people to make positive ripples in the world.
There is an equal, if not more powerful significance in making an impact in the lives of those around us. Doing small things for the people we come in direct contact with everyday. Here are two stories:
I was recently in the mall to buy a new pair of pants. I had ripped my jeans and was headed on a somewhat unscheduled 4 day
speaking trip. I was in a rush and thinking only of my own needs.
Out of the corner of my eye I noticed a very elderly lady in a wheelchair. She caught my attention because she was smiling larger than life and had a tear running down her cheek. I immediately looked around to try and find the reason. Then I saw him. A small boy 6 or 7 years old was running towards her, arms outstretched and shouting “Nana, Nana, Nana…”
It was wonderful. In the middle of my crazy hustle I was reminded of the power of individual organic moments. I was grateful to see this STUpendous interaction.
The 2nd moment happened last night. I was in Olds, Alberta at my hotel getting ready to go for dinner with my friend. As I got into the car I realized I couldn’t find my wallet. (Those that know me, probably aren’t surprised to hear that.) I retraced my steps and then got the worst feeling; I knew exactly where it was – 230 kms away! My wallet was in Edmonton at the Starbucks I went to 4 hours ago. A quick call confirmed that I would need to drive over two hours back to get it. It was 7:30 at night and then I realized I may have to drive faster than I like to make it. I called back, “What time do you close?” I asked, “9 pm” she said. I explained my story and my distance away from the store.
I must have sounded a bit panicked because she replied “No worries, I will wait for you. Just knock on the drive through window.”
It took me just over 2 hours to get there. At 9:37 pm I pulled up to the window.
We exchanged a knowing smile. She handed me my wallet and Venti coffee and said, “Please drive safe and don’t feel dumb, we all forget things.”
“What do I owe you?” I asked. “Nothing just drive safely.”
With a smile she was gone and I was back on the road. I actually was much more alert. I’m sure it seem like a small thing for her but I felt good, filled with hope.
You are in charge of how you act and interact every single day. It doesn’t have to be BIG! It can be small yet meaningful interactions that make the most wonderful impact.
What will you do today?
In Leadership and gratitude,
