Class of 1987 Spring Class Letter
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| Dear Classmates,
“Vassene il tempo e l’uom[e] non se ne avvede”
“Time goes by and [wo]man does not realize it.”
-Dante’s DIVINA COMMEDIA PURGATORY (Canto IV, Verso 9)
It’s officially Reunion Month on the Hill!
We hope to see many of you back in Gambier this May to commemorate our 35th reunion and celebrate “The Great Reunion”, since alumni will be finally able to convene in-person on campus after two years of virtual gatherings. The sense of isolation accompanying the past two years has been challenging to navigate, but having the support of you all, our Kenyon family, has continued to brighten the darkest parts of this pandemic for us — thank you!
We hope you have heard about (and perhaps supported!) the new Kenyon Access Initiative. Kenyon is eight months into our five-year partnership with the Schuler Education Foundation to increase access to Kenyon for exceptional students with limited resources. Our extended Kenyon community has enthusiastically responded by making more than 1,113 gifts supporting this unique initiative, creating new scholarships that will be awarded to students enrolling now. In further great news, applications this year hit another record, up 14% over last year.
Have you seen the news from President Sean Decatur this winter? In response to calls from students as we approach our Bicentennial, he agreed the time has come to look beyond Lords and Ladies. Thanks to all of you who have submitted suggestions or other feedback for the process to consider a new athletics moniker. This letter was finalized before the results were known, but you can visit kenyon.edu/moniker to learn the latest.
This spring, the College continued its commitment to integrating environmental stewardship into its curriculum, campus operations and campus culture. Also announced was the news that Lisa Schott ’80, who since 2010 has served as managing director of the College’s land trust, the Philander Chase Conservancy (PCC), will step down from that position at the end of June after a nearly 40-year career with Kenyon. This news and more was shared in Kenyon’s new quarterly Green Newsletter. If you don’t already receive it, I encourage you to sign up for it at bit.ly/Green-Kenyon.
As summer approaches, Kenyon is preparing to welcome several groups of alumni back to campus. First, more than 100 members of the Class of 2020 and their families have registered to attend their belated Commencement taking place on the Hill May 22. On May 26, the Classes of 1970, 1971 and 1972 will be kicking off Reunion Weekend a day early with special 50th Reunion programming. And then, as you know, many of us will be back on campus May 27-29 for what promises to be the biggest alumni gathering in the College’s history! I can’t wait to catch up with all of you, relive old memories and share a few laughs together.
All of the excitement and achievement at Kenyon today can be traced, in part, back to our support. Kenyon relies on our gifts to the Kenyon Fund to support every aspect of students’ experience today, from seminars to scholarships. I hope you’ll join me in making a stretch gift this year in honor of our reunion. By the way, participation is a metric by which Kenyon is measured. Please consider a gift of any amount. We know first-hand how a Kenyon education can impact one’s future — not just professionally, but personally. When we support Kenyon’s current and future students, we help make a Kenyon family like ours a possibility for many more.
With gratitude!
David Hanson, Larry Shipman and David Rosenthal
P.S. Scroll down to view the 1987 class notes.
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There's still time to join the celebration!
Why limit the fun to April 30, 2022? Here are a few ways you can get in a Gambier state of mind any day of the year:
Give 43022
Because Kenyon is at the heart of 43022, we held our annual giving challenge April 29-30. There's still time to support sustainability, scholarships, athletics and all the elements that make Kenyon, Kenyon. MAKE A GIFT
Buy exclusive 43022 merch
While supplies last, the Bookstore is still selling 43022 shirts, totes and water vessels that include a built-in gift to the Kenyon Fund to support today’s Kenyon students. START SHOPPING
Send Reunion greetings to 43022
Can't make it back to the Hill this year? Record a video greeting to be played on campus for your fellow alumni during Reunion Weekend 2022. RECORD A MESSAGE
Build a 43022 community near you
Attend a regional event or plan one yourself. The Alumni Office can help you organize an event for alumni, families and friends of the College in your region — complete with 43022 swag! PLAN AN EVENT
Connect with 43022 from afar
It's easy — and fun — to stay connected to Kenyon from wherever you are. The Alumni Office organizes virtual events for alumni that range from class-specific gatherings, professional development panels, topical conversations and more. BROWSE UPCOMING EVENTS
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Upcoming Events for Alumni
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Save the date for these upcoming events for alumni taking place online and on the Hill.
- Virtual Alumni Town Hall
Our Reunion Town Hall with President Decatur will take place Thursday, May 12 via Zoom.
- Reunion Weekend
All alumni are invited to join us on the Hill May 27–29.
- Homecoming Weekend
Join us for athletic competitions, festivities and alumni volunteer meetings on the Hill Sept. 23-25.
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Reunion CommitteeReunion Committee members are your connection to campus. To learn about becoming one, contact Director of Annual Giving Molly Gutridge '99 via email.
• David Hanson • David Rosenthal • Larry Shipman
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Class of 1987 Spring Notes
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Arthur Miller
Looking forward to seeing all the changes on the Hill!
Peter Luther
Living the semi-retired life between Princeton, NJ and Kiawah Island, SC. Retired from full-time work 3 years ago and now serving on three Boards, one of them with the US Soccer Foundation along with Cully Stimson ‘86. It’s been a nice mix of more personal time and staying engaged at a less intensive level with business. Looking forward to my former Kenyon roommate and Delt brother Tim Ehrhart ‘87 moving down to SC as well in the coming year. For anybody visiting the Charleston area, ping me to play some golf!
“Katya” Catherine (Uroff) Brill
I have a new story out in Faultline magazine this spring. Also, my husband and I moved to Baltimore last year. Great city! I'd love to connect with any other Kenyon alum in the area.
Lisa Sell
I am living my same wonderful rural life. My husband is a farm vet, I am a small animal vet, and we have a flock of 100+ sheep that keep us busy when we're not working. Our son graduated from South Dakota State University and now teaches high school animal science and agriculture. One daughter is at Lafayette College in Eastern PA and one daughter is at Grinnell College in Iowa, so we went 2 for 3 on small private liberal arts colleges. Both girls are admissions tour guides at their respective schools (I was a tour guide for 3 years at Kenyon). Since their schools are both very similar to Kenyon, they're always excited to tell me when they've had a family on tour who has also visited Gambier!
Becky Kilburn
This is my first submission to our class note! After graduating from Kenyon, I got a Ph.D. in Economics from the University of Chicago, and then I was an economist at the RAND Corporation for 28 years. In 2021, I transitioned to a Research Professor position at the Prevention Research Center in the School of Medicine at the University of New Mexico. I have lived in Santa Fe, NM for the last 17 years. Santa Fe is more than 1,500 miles from Gambier and has fewer than 100,000 residents, so it is remarkable that I connect with Kenyon often--close local friends are Kenyon alums, my children have teachers who went to Kenyon, colleagues graduated from Kenyon, and so on. I also regularly host Kenyon friends in Santa Fe--Beth (Welty) Dreyfuss visited last week. If you are ever in Santa Fe and would like a tour or vacation suggestions, I hope you will reach out. Best wishes to everyone!
Charlie Adams
Hello from sunny San Diego! Much has happened since my last class note. I moved here from Santa Monica 2 years ago and last September I got married to Jennifer Ouellette who grew up in Southern Maine 30 minutes away from me in Manchester, Massachusetts. We recently moved to Point Loma in San Diego which is a great community near the harbor. Jennifer is a sales executive for Kindred Hospice and has long championed the care, dignity and welfare of seniors for many years. I am still managing Semper Fuel LLC and have taken on a new endeavor as a house painter with a small existing company owned by a good friend of mine and will become owner by the end of 2022. We both work out 4-5 times a week at Orange Theory Fitness Point Loma and still enjoy "bagging" 11-12K peaks in Southern California. I am very much looking forward to returning to campus for my 35th class reunion in May and will be joined by Craig Phares, Ian Henderson and countless others - can't wait!
Stephanie Abbajay
Hi everyone! So looking forward to seeing everyone at reunion! This year (2022) is a big one for the Abba-Stine household. My book about my father's life, A Bar in Toledo, comes out in May; our son is graduating from Columbia College Chicago (fashion design!); our daughter is graduating from high school (and attending DePaul University to study film and television); our company, David Stine Furniture, is celebrating 25 years in business; and my husband and I are celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary. There is a lot going on, but we wouldn't have it any other way. Hope everyone is well!
Chris Schoenleb
My family and I escaped the cold Midwest and returned to my hometown in Phoenix in 2018 where I am working at North Valley Christian Academy as the head of school. It's great to finally be done with COVID and see explosive growth. Our daughter Megan graduated from Templeton Honors College at Eastern University in May and completed student teaching in December with plans to teach English at a Lutheran school.
Colleen Siders Eaton
After our second move of 2021, Chris ’89 & I are now living on the outskirts of Denver, busily getting to know our new home and enjoying the weather. We were thrilled to find an active Kenyon alumni group and look forward to getting to know everyone better!
Dana Baker-Williams
I can't believe my daughter Kylie ’22 is graduating from Kenyon in a couple of months. What's funny is we will share reunions--so that should be so fun! Our son Tyler moved into San Francisco after being home during the Covid shutdown--sadly he didn't really have a "graduation". My business, Parenting In Real Life is going well right now given all the world turmoil over the last couple of years. I am an Anxiety and ADHD coach for parents and teens. I'm also still writing about parenting and mental health and enjoying that. Haven't seen anyone from Kenyon in a while--thanks Covid--but hope to soon as I won't make it to reunion, unfortunately. So please come visit and let me know if you're in the Bay Area ever. Lots of room for you!! :)
David Hanson
I'm still in Ohio, working at the State Public Defender, based in prison. Things are still slowly opening up. I'm looking forward to seeing everyone at reunion!
Genevieve Bates
ROMANCE is in the Air! Marshall Garrison ’86 and I recently got married. We met at Kenyon 37 years ago. We met when we both lived in Watson, and he charmed me with his smile and his awesome 80's hairstyle.
Susanna Dunk Perutz
Tim and I have moved and now live in the beautiful city of Oxford, UK.
Craig Phares
After 30 years of living in downtown Manhattan, I have moved out - to Brooklyn. Perhaps it is a sign of age. Not sure. But I do enjoy my new outdoor space. And the laidback feel of my Boerum Hill neighborhood. Perhaps most importantly, my 3 young kids love it. I am still slaving away in finance. But my new commute dulls the pain.
Elizabeth Jenkins Erb
This might be my first class note I've submitted. The last two years have left me wondering about where I want to go and what I want to do during this second half of my life. I've been working for International Paper now for around 15 years. The pandemic itself did not change much for me as I continued to go into work each day as lab work isn't easily done from home. The same goes for my husband who makes a living as a master technician in automotive repair, he also kept going into work. My son was able to finish his Masters in Mechanical Engineering from The Ohio State University in Dec 2020, and he found a job by late summer of 2021. In early 2021, my father, Thomas M. Jenkins ’57, was found to have liver cancer and I spent the better part of the year as his primary caregiver. His passing has left an odd vacancy in my routines. Caring for our loved ones is such a blessing as well as a stressful challenge. If anyone is coming through the Cincinnati (Loveland to be specific) area, reach out and we can grab a tea/coffee together.
Jocelyn (Kenton) Hardman
I was just back on the Hill to spend time with Ellen Leerburger ’86, Kyla Carlson ’89, and Meg Archer ’92 after Alumni Council duties were fulfilled. Dave Hanson even joined us for Taco Night! As we get older, we are more willing to strip ourselves to the bone emotionally, because why bother holding anything back? The gift of that honest vulnerability is the strength that it reveals of who we are, which had not yet fully flowered in our young adult selves. After two of my sisters died young - one at 15 and the other at 20 - I honestly never expected to live this long. I will never know why I am alive and they are not, but I am grateful for all of it. As I returned to the road at the end of the weekend, I realized that it has been more than 35 years that I have been traveling this beloved Middle Path, but it is never the same and neither am I. The Spanish poet, Antonio Machado, whom I also first learned to love at Kenyon, reminds me:
“Caminante, son tus huellas
el camino y nada más;
Caminante, no hay camino,
se hace camino al andar.
Al andar se hace el camino,
y al volver la vista atrás
se ve la senda que nunca
se ha de volver a pisar.
Caminante, no hay camino
sino estelas en la mar.”
Traveler, your footprints
are the only road, nothing else.
Traveler, there is no road;
you make your own path as you walk.
As you walk, you make your own road,
and when you look back
you see the path
you will never travel again.
Traveler, there is no road;
only a ship’s wake on the sea.
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If you missed the chance to share your news for this letter, you can submit a class note at any time via kenyon.edu/class-note-form.
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