Class of 1985 Spring Class Letter
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| Dear classmates,
On my Facebook page, I recently posed this question: The degree of difficulty in navigating this world has increased exponentially these past few years. Tell me. How are you caring for your heart and what are you doing to feel whole and connected?
The answers were wide-ranging, with honesty taking center stage as several shared how deeply they are struggling. I was struck by the themes that emerged, as many spoke to the importance of taking note of the beauty that surrounds us, the precious moments when we can come together with those we love and cherish, imagining how to emerge anew, and intentionally engaging in acts of kindness and generosity.
Perhaps this is another reason why I love Kenyon, as this is the community where I can be guaranteed of finding all these essential elements needed to nurture hope and resilience.
In the spirit of the beauty that surrounds us…
This spring, the College continued its commitment to integrating environmental stewardship into its curriculum, campus operations and campus culture. They also announced the news that Lisa Schott ’80, who since 2010 has served as managing director of the College’s land trust, the Philander Chase Conservancy (PCC), will step down from that position at the end of June after a nearly 40-year career with Kenyon. This news and more was shared in Kenyon’s new quarterly Green Newsletter. If you don’t already receive it, I encourage you to sign up for it at bit.ly/Green-Kenyon.
In the spirit of the precious moments when we can come together…
I am excited to share that even though this year isn’t a milestone reunion year for us, all alumni are welcome back for Reunion Weekend this year (and in the future!) and the fact that alumni are FINALLY able to reunite on campus again after two years of virtual gatherings is something worth celebrating.
As summer approaches, Kenyon is preparing to welcome several groups of alumni back to campus. First, more than 100 members of the Class of 2020 and their families have registered to attend their belated Commencement taking place on the Hill May 22. On May 26, the Classes of 1970, 1971 and 1972 will be kicking off Reunion Weekend a day early with special 50th Reunion programming. And then, all alumni are welcome back to campus May 27-29 for what promises to be the biggest alumni gathering in the College’s history! If you can’t make it back for Reunion this year, I hope you’ll plan to attend one soon.
In the spirit of imaging how to emerge anew…
Hopefully you saw the news from President Sean Decatur this winter that, in response to calls from students as we approach our Bicentennial, he agreed the time had come to look beyond Lords and Ladies. Thanks to all of you who have submitted suggestions or other feedback for the process to consider a new athletics moniker. This letter was finalized before the results were known, but you can visit kenyon.edu/moniker to learn the latest.
In the spirit of intentionally engaging in acts of kindness and generosity…
Last fall, I hope you heard about (and perhaps supported!) the new Kenyon Access Initiative. We are eight months into our five-year partnership with the Schuler Education Foundation to increase access to Kenyon for exceptional students with limited resources. Our extended Kenyon community has enthusiastically responded by making more than 1,113 gifts to support this unique initiative, helping to create new scholarships that will be awarded to students we are enrolling now.
This opportunity resonates with me like no other, and thanks to the appreciation of some Apple stock, I have been able to make a gift at a level I never considered before or thought possible. This impact of this stretch gift is doubled because of the generous Schuler match. I honestly do not think I have ever felt prouder of a philanthropic investment. If this opportunity resonates with you, please reach out to me, as I’d love to talk more with you about what is possible.
On August 22, I had the awesome honor of addressing the incoming Kenyon class of 2025 at the convocation ceremony, nearly 40 years to the date of ours on August 30, 1981. In my remarks I shared: “You’ll come to find that there is great magic on this special hill in the middle of Ohio. As I often tell people, this is the place I learned how to live happily inside my own skin – heart and head in sync.”
Kenyon, the place and the people, continues to be a gift of incredible proportions. In whatever way you can, I hope you will join me in supporting the Kenyon Fund. Our collective investments hold the power to nurture Kenyon forward, creating a community where future generations can receive the gifts of learning and connection that continue to sustain each of us.
With gratitude and deep purple love, Susan Berger
P.S. Scroll down to view the 1985 class notes.
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There's still time to join the celebration!
Why limit the fun to April 30, 2022? Here are a few ways you can get in a Gambier state of mind any day of the year:
Give 43022
Because Kenyon is at the heart of 43022, we held our annual giving challenge April 29-30. There's still time to support sustainability, scholarships, athletics and all the elements that make Kenyon, Kenyon. MAKE A GIFT
Buy exclusive 43022 merch
While supplies last, the Bookstore is still selling 43022 shirts, totes and water vessels that include a built-in gift to the Kenyon Fund to support today’s Kenyon students. START SHOPPING
Send Reunion greetings to 43022
Can't make it back to the Hill this year? Record a video greeting to be played on campus for your fellow alumni during Reunion Weekend 2022. RECORD A MESSAGE
Build a 43022 community near you
Attend a regional event or plan one yourself. The Alumni Office can help you organize an event for alumni, families and friends of the College in your region — complete with 43022 swag! PLAN AN EVENT
Connect with 43022 from afar
It's easy — and fun — to stay connected to Kenyon from wherever you are. The Alumni Office organizes virtual events for alumni that range from class-specific gatherings, professional development panels, topical conversations and more. BROWSE UPCOMING EVENTS
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Upcoming Events for Alumni
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Save the date for these upcoming events for alumni taking place online and on the Hill.
- Virtual Alumni Town Hall
Our Reunion Town Hall with President Decatur will take place Thursday, May 12 via Zoom.
- Reunion Weekend
All alumni are invited to join us on the Hill May 27–29.
- Homecoming Weekend
Join us for athletic competitions, festivities and alumni volunteer meetings on the Hill Sept. 23-25.
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Class AgentsClass agents are your connection to campus. To learn about becoming one, contact Director of Leadership Annual Giving Tracey Wilson via email.
• Karen Agee Lipman • Chuck Barr • Susan Berger • Emily Resnik Conn • Jim Cravens • Maria DiGiusto O'Neill • Kate Fonyo Pisano • Becky Houpt Gladstone • Andy Hull • Curt Kinsky • Gina Bauman Kornfeind • Sarah Mitchell Buller • Robin Muller • Ann Sibley Pickens • Laura Plummer • Deb Johnson Reeder • Matt Rhoa • Jan Richardson • Jim Rossman • Tracey Nash Salinas • Mary Schwendener • David Sheehan • Harvey Stephens • Deirdre van Dyk • T.O. Wagner
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Class of 1985 Spring Notes
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Susan Berger: A Kenyon highlight of the year was the opportunity to be a convocation speaker in August 2021, delivering the Trustee welcome to the class of 2025, almost 40 years to the day of our convocation. The best part was that I got to wear the purple puffy hat and received a surprise visit from Laura Plummer!
Our oldest granddaughter got married on January 3 in New Jersey. It was the height of the Omicron surge, so at the last minute we made the heartbreaking choice to stay home and watch via Zoom. Our second great grandchild is expected in May, words I never thought I’d be writing at this point in my life! Joy continues to come from connecting with Kenyon friends. I’ve seen Scott Garson more than most during COVID, as our dogs Ori and Otis love to play. A recent visit from Jon Tazewell ’84, Peg Tazewell ’03 and their daughter Maia was special and included dinner with Janae Peters ’10. The evening was capped by a fun, unexpected late-night Facetime call with Sharon Cassidy Dorsett and Becky Houpt Gladstone.
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John Callinan: Moved to Ponte Vedra Beach and met up with Tim Stautberg and his wife, Katherine Thornwell Stautberg '87 and also, my wife Christy included in pic.
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Emily Resnik Conn: The scene: 1. Knowing my "baby" would be graduating from college this coming May; 2. not knowing when and if we may be able to take the next family vacation; and 3. wanting to stay in the country during COVID. Who you gonna call? Classmate Jan Richardson, Travel Agent Extraordinaire and Disney Aficionada! Jan helped us plan the best trip to the Magic Kingdom just before Christmas. It's certainly a different trip to Disney when traveling with 20+ year-old boys as opposed to when they were school age. This time they couldn't wait to "drink around the world" at Epcot. And they were up for all the rides -- which couldn't be said for their father! LOL! Totally can't wait to book another trip with Jan!
Jim Cravens: Jim reports that he and his wife Alexandria recently sold their home and have moved into an apartment in downtown Orlando. "We wanted to be in an area where we could walk to restaurants, bars and music. The average age of our new neighborhood is also about 30 years younger than our previous one, so it's quite a change of pace."
Stephanie Dudgeon: I have worked on an inpatient psychiatric unit in a 900+ bed hospital for the past decade. Two years ago this month, as the SARS-CoV-2 pandemic unfolded, and the state of Ohio went into lockdown, our unit remained open. My colleagues and I found ourselves bumped to the front lines and we have worked non-stop for the past two years. A year ago this month, my beautiful sister, Sonya Dudgeon Broeren `90 died after a three year battle with cancer. The generous amount of love and support received from members of the Kenyon community made the situation so much more bearable for our family. I hope everybody is doing well and I am ready for our lives to not feel like a season of "Ozark" episodes!
Taylor Burton Edwards: Taylor continues to live "La Vida Ecumenica" as Director of Ask The UMC (United Methodist Communications), a rostered pastor in The Evangelical Lutheran Church of America serving a congregation in Warner Robins, GA, and leading worship related workshops for the Flint River Presbytery of the Presbyterian Church USA, while still chairing the Consultation on Common Texts, serving in his third (and final) term as Secretary of The North American Academy of Liturgy, as well as Treasurer for The Liturgical Conference-- all while married (for over 31 years now) to an Episcopal priest.
Kristen Moloney Farmer: I am still living in my hometown of Metamora, Michigan. I have been working as a professional photographer for the last 20 years, but am taking a hiatus right now to manage my son's band, Frame 42. It has been a trip! They just got back from a national tour with Joyous Wolf and, yes, I traveled in a tour bus for three weeks with 10 other people. All worth it because I got to see Susan Berger, Megan O'Donnell Patton ’84, Leslie Ross Choma '84, Jean Bayless Albrecht ’88 and Andy Albrecht ’89 in Ohio. I spend the rest of my time getting pushed, pulled, jumped on and hugged by my three beautiful grandchildren. Life is good!
Sarah Kading Frankum: After becoming empty nesters (briefly - COVID brought the kids home again), Sarah went back to school. Graduating with a master's in Sustainability Leadership from Arizona State University's online program in August, she hopes to use her degree to make waste-to-energy solutions a reality.
Gina Bauman Kornfeind: "What will you do with your one wild and precious life?" says the poet Mary Oliver. Inspired by Oliver and upon becoming empty nesters after launching our 4th daughter to college, my husband and I have left California and moved to New Jersey! Kenyon was at the heart and soul of this move as our dear classmates Sarah and Lawrence Shannon sold us their amazing home in Ringoes (near Hopewell). We drove across the country in late January with our dog Reilly in tow to live closer to our four daughters who live in Brooklyn, Boston, New Jersey and Maine. I am temporarily retired from working as a medical social worker but still doing virtual grief support groups for grieving parents and siblings. Would love to reconnect with anyone who lives in the area. My email is fgkorn@aol.com. My kids are horrified that I still have an AOL account! Excited to start this new chapter and be closer to Kenyon and many of our class members!
Karen Agee Lipman: Since my father lives with us and we help take care of my husband’s 91 year old father, we were in serious COVID lock down for all of 2020. I am so appreciative of being able to travel and see Kenyon friends again!
My husband Shawn and I spent two months this summer in Boulder for our daughter’s (successful) surgery and recovery. The silver lining was getting to spend time with Michael and Janet Stoner. We also visited Karel Starek ’86 and his wife Alice Starek at their Golden Hoof Farm. Susan Berger came to Denver for a family event, and I had a great time catching up with her and T.O. Wagner. Back in LA, Sharon and Mark ’84 Dorsett were in town and hosted a lovely evening joined by Gina and Fred Kornfeind.
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In November, I went on my "Midwest Hug Tour,” reconnecting with friends I haven’t seen since the pandemic. I loved my time with Mary Schwendener in Richmond, IN. We drove to Indianapolis to join Ben and Laila Waggoner and Krissann Mueller Klaus for Ben’s pre-Indy Marathon dinner. Mary and I then took our Kenyon reunion to Gambier to spend a gorgeous autumn afternoon on The Hill. We visited with Kris Caldwell ’84, her husband Dave, their fabulous daughter Kellyn ’12, and Jim and Marcie Steen. From there I went to Chicago to visit my son and was able to spend time with Nadine Neil Fabish ’86. Spending time with my Kenyon friends reminds me of how blessed I am and what a significant role Kenyon has played in my life. Forming these lifelong relationships means the world to me.
Jennifer Mizenko: Mostly figuring out life post full time academia. Before the surge of Delta and Omicron I was able to visit my brother Michael Mizenko ’81 in Denver, and my other two brothers in California. I continue to teach a gentle movement and meditation on class online. Hit me up if you're interested in joining! thedancelady@gmail.com
“Coach” Robin Muller: Survived our first true Nor'easter blizzard in January with just short of 24 inches of snow. Fortunately, we have a great neighbor who cleared the initial 18 inches with his snow blower. I haven't seen that much snow since "the blizzard of '78" in Cleveland!
Mike Nevins: Mike and his wife Toni have moved to Wilmington, NC and have enjoyed connecting with classmates Lawrence Shannon and Sarah VanOosterhout Shannon who have moved there too.
Gretchen Anderson Pickering: Gradually returning to pre-COVID life like the rest of us. My son is a freshman at Susquehanna and doing well. It’s hard not having him home after two years of COVID quarantine and restrictions. My daughter is a HS freshman and is killing it. We are starting HS lax season and I'm really looking forward to being a lax parent (rather than a coach), though she plays club lax for the balance of the year, so there isn’t much down time. I’ve stopped coaching youth lax because my kid is having her best life and I’m her driver. It makes for a crazy schedule but I wouldn’t miss it! My husband is thrilled that I’m not coaching. It will be strange to have free weekends in the spring! Though the summer tournaments will make up for it.
Jan Richardson: I joined the Keep Mississippi Beautiful office as assistant director in November 2021. I was honored to receive the Madison County School District High School Parent of the Year award for the 2021-22 school year.
“Schwens” Mary Schwendener: Big changes for me! Hard to believe that in 37 weeks, I'll be retiring from my staff psychologist position with the VA! Not that I'll be slacking, I'll still have my private practice and consulting jobs. However, they can be done from anywhere so I'm hoping to be more mobile (WFH = work from beach?). My plan is to travel and volunteer at church and Kenyon. I'm also going to be selling the house and moving to Indy. Believe it or not, two years later, we are on the Reunion list (5s) for May – I’ll be there, hoping to see you?
David Sheehan: After spending just about my entire professional life after Kenyon in and around NYC, our family will be moving to Memphis, TN at the conclusion of the academic year. My wife has gotten a fantastic position there, and I am the trailing spouse who will be/is looking for an education-related position. It is hard to consider that NY(C) will not be our home anymore, but I am excited to start this next phase of our life in a city I know little about, because the learning is always fun and new adventures abound.
Glenn Singer: Spending five weeks in Charleston (Isle of Palms), SC, with my “snowbird” brother and sister-in-law. I had spinal decompression and fusion surgery here, and now I’m recuperating, walking on the beach and/or walking paths 2-4 times/day — often wearing my 43022 cap and sometimes a Kenyon t-shirt as well. Looking forward to returning to life in Boston in a few weeks — hopefully in conjunction with the arrival of spring and warmer weather there!
Janet Bendix Stoner and Michael Stoner: Janet and Michael moved east, leaving Boulder, CO for Essex, CT. Peter Propp and his wife Suzanne threw a welcome party for them last November, attended by a wonderful crew of Kenyon friends, pictured below. (Back row left to right: MaryPat Ennis Whitmyer, Bill Taylor, Anne Kaplan, Alison Stone Steiner, Michael Stoner; Front row left to right: Jennifer Luce Taylor, Janet Bendix Stoner, Maria DiGiusto O’Neill, Liz Markham McLanahan, Eliza Winans Rossman `84, Jim Rossman, Peter Propp)
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Josh Welsh: Josh continues to work in the independent film world, as President of Film Independent, and to record music under the moniker of Meatyard. Last year, he was excited to see his nephew Liam Brodigan ’19 in California.
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If you missed the chance to share your news for this letter, you can submit a class note at any time via kenyon.edu/class-note-form.
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