Top 10 Tips for 

Booking a Luxury Cruise

by Daria Dimitroff
July 2024
Bay Islands, Honduras. 
I am a luxury travel advisor and one of my specialities is high-end cruises. There are dozens of cruise lines to choose from, each with multiple ships and a wide variety of itineraries, so selecting the right cruise for you can be a complicated proposition. Here are my top tips about how to choose the best cruise for you, and how an expert like me can assist throughout the process.

1. How to Pick the Right Cruise Line & Ship For You
I can match you to the right cruise line and ship for you. I interview you about what you want and will then have several cruise lines in mind that will fit your personal preferences. Below are the factors I consider when thinking about which cruise line and ship would be best for my clients:
Number of passengers. Think about how many passengers you want to travel with. The number of passengers on each ship varies from 6,000+ to less than 200. The most luxurious ships carry less than 1,000 passengers. Smaller ships can visit off-the-beaten path ports that do not allow larger ships to dock.
Quality of the food. Is food important to you? If you are foodie (like me), I will advise you on which lines offer the finest culinary experiences. 
Stateroom size. How much space do you want? Be sure to look at the size of any cabin you are considering. Even when comparing the most expensive staterooms across cruise lines you will find that the size varies. In order to get the best value, you should also consider the square footage of the balcony (or balconies). I know the lines with the most spacious accommodations and direct my clients accordingly.
Quality of service. For many of my clients, the quality and type of service provided is extremely important. I know which cruise lines value service and which ones provide formal service vs. more warm and personal service as well as the crew-to-guest ratio on all the best ships.
Whether excursions are included. Only the most high-end cruises include excursions in the price of the cruise. This is an important factor to consider when calculating the actual cost of your vacation. When everything is included, it's much easier to determine what your final cost will be.
Quality of the excursions. Some cruise lines provide excellent excursions. In this case, it is easier to make decisions about how to spend your time because you can select from what the cruise line offers. In the case of a line that does not provide fabulous activity options, you may want to explore private excursions. I advise my clients about which cruise lines have the best excursions and offer alternatives when private options are better
What else is includedThe most luxurious high-end cruises include all meals, drinks (premium alcohol, speciality beverages, and carbonated drinks), shore excursions, activities, tours, flights, transfers to and from the ship, and entertainment on board.
The majority of cruise lines don't include all these items. Most only include meals and basic beverages like non-carbonated, non-alcoholic drinks. Most charge for specialty dining and other drinks (speciality coffee, alcohol, carbonated beverages). Many of the luxury lines include entertainment whereas others have an upcharge for some shows. Pay attention to whether flights and transfers from home to airport and airport to ship are included as well. 
Of course, I am an expert and advise my clients on all of this so they can compare apples to apples and make the best choice for them. I know the differences so you don't have to worry about every little charge. 
Extra perks When you book with a well-connected travel advisor like me, you can get extra perks included in your cruise fare. I have special relationships with the luxury cruise lines, so I get access to perks like:

  • exclusive upgrades
  • private experiences (like after-hours access to the Vatican, for example)
  • shipboard credits
  • complimentary hotel stays before or after the cruise
  • prepaid gratuities
  • exclusive cocktail receptions
  • dedicated onboard host to provide VIP service 
None of these perks are available when you reserve on your own.

The ship. Many ships have features like a spa, pool, hot tub, and gym. If this is important to you, I will guide you to the right options.
Some of my clients appreciate a lot of dining choices, so the number of dining venues and bars on board are important to them, as well as whether they are all included. 
You should also consider the vibe on board the ship. When I select cruises for my clients to consider, I think about what they like, from family-friendly to more peaceful and adult-oriented to more of a party atmosphere.
Entertainment & activities on boardMany of my clients also want to know what type of on board activities are provided like fitness classes, lectures, kids activities, entertainment, and casino. Some ships provide all of these, and others don't. I advise my clients accordingly. 
Amsterdam

2. How to Select the Right Itinerary

There are a variety of factors to consider when comparing itineraries. No two itineraries are the same. For example, cruises to the Greek Islands often visit Santorini and Mykonos, but not always. Some will visit lesser known ports as well and some will include Turkey. I interview my clients thoroughly to find out what type of itinerary will suit them, and send them a few choices that match their interests. Otherwise, they would have to sort though hundreds. 
I also ask my clients how many "sea days" they want, if any. A "sea day" is a day when the ship is not docked in port and you cannot go ashore. Many people love sea days for sleeping in, relaxing at the pool, visiting the spa, or just reading a book. Other people don't like to stay on the ship and want to spend as much time ashore as possible.
I talk to my clients about how much time they want to spend in port too. Some of my clients like to explore lots of places and prefer cruises that hit more than one port a day while others like to immerse themselves in destinations and would prefer being docked overnight.

3. Understanding the Pricing
Cruise lines often list prices on their websites without the taxes and fees to draw you in, so you should always find out what the actual pricing is before committing to a cruise.
I compare the bottom line prices for my clients and advise them. (I can also place a hold on cruises while my clients make their decision, which is helpful because then the price is locked. Prices are dynamic so without the hold the price can increase.)
A few of the luxury cruise lines include gratuities in your cruise fair. But, usually gratuities (sometimes called "services charges") will be automatically charged to your account unless they are prepaid. (You have the option to reverse them, but it is customary to provide the recommended amount to staff as reward for a job well done.) Sometimes there are specials for free gratuities (in other words, the cruise line pays the staff the gratuities and you don't have to) with certain cruise lines and this is a very valuable amenity. I make sure my clients know and understand whether gratuities are included or will be charged, so they are comparing the actual cost of each cruise.
Sometimes cruise lines offer special rates for certain categories of people like military, in-state resident, senior or AARP. However, these require proof and if you don't provide it in the right format and on time you might be required to pay more when you board the ship. I make sure my clients are aware of these requirements in advance.
 Cruise prices can also go down after you book your cruise, although it can be hard to track this unless you are a travel advisor. I have an automated system for monitoring cruise pricing. I input all of my clients' bookings and am notified if the price of the cruise goes down after booking, so I can get my clients a refund when possible.

4. How to Get the Best Stateroom for You
There is not a "best" cabin on any ship. The best stateroom for you will depend on many factors like whether this is your first cruise, if you get sea sick, how many extra perks you want, whether you are a light sleeper, and more. I know what questions to ask you to find out which cabin is the best for you.
Sometimes certain suites come with extra perks like separate common areas on the ship, complimentary cocktail hours, priority boarding, restocked bar in room, a butler, and more. I advise my clients so they understand what they get with different cabin options.
I also understand details like which balconies have obstructed or partially obstructed views (and what that means), and how particular balcony railings can impact your view.
For families and groups, it can be a challenge to figure out how to configure your cabins and how many people to put in each. I help my clients understand the best options for everyone traveling in their groups. For example, I will advise as to whether they need connecting cabins or if adjacent will suffice (and the cost difference). I help my clients understand the difference in value between booking a suite or two cabins for a family or group.
Different cruise lines also have different rules about the minimum age required for passengers in each cabin and whether cabins need to be connecting in those situations. For example, one popular cruise line requires there to be a guest who is 25 or over in each cabin in which there is a guest who is under 21. When families are traveling together, different lines have different rules about where the parents' cabin needs to be located in relation to the kids' cabin (connected, adjacent, or a few doors down).
You should familiarize yourself with all of these details before reserving, or be sure to use an expert like me to guide you.
Off the coast of Belize.
5. Plan Your Travel Before & After Your Cruise
If you want to do any traveling before or after your cruise, think about where the cruise starts and ends. Many start and end in fantastic destinations that deserve a few more days beyond the time the ship spends in port. 
For example, many Greek Islands cruises start in Athens but don't spend any time there. Athens has a lot to offer, depending on your interests, so you may want to spend a few extra nights there. A lot of Mediterranean cruises start or end in Barcelona, a city definitely worth a few days for some people. There are lots of fabulous towns to visit near Barcelona as well, providing a tantalizing reason to extend your vacation.
I customize entire trips for my clients, including vacation time before and after their cruise. This includes flights, accommodations, transportation on the ground (train, rental car, private transfers, etc.), tours, activities, tickets, and even restaurant recommendations and reservations. I customize all travel based on your specific interests and desires.
I find the best activities and experiences, including private tours and exclusive access to sites after hours or in areas that aren't normally open to the public.
When you reserve with me you benefit from my deep expertise on your destinations and my clout and contacts all over the world. 

6. Understand Where, When, and How to Book Your Airfare
Sometimes cruise lines offer free or reduced price airfare when you book your cruise with them. This can be either a fantastic value or a huge disappointment. Before you take one of these offers you should know if you have any control over the schedule (like departure and arrival dates and times and number of connections). You should also find out if you will be able to select seats and if you will have the choice of any seats available.
I advise my clients when to reserve airfare through the cruise line and when to avoid it.
I assist with flights, seating on flights, transfers to and from the ship, and making sure you get the timing right for your arrival and departure (each line has preferences for when clients should get to the ship and leave). 
Before booking airfare, you should also know how difficult it will be to get to the cruise port. Some ports are much more challenging to get to than others, adding an additional burden and expense whereas others are very accessible and in great locations. For example, Rome is over an hour's drive from its port while Vancouver's port is right in the middle of the city and has a nice hotel connected to it.
I know the differences and advise my clients accordingly.

7. Plan Your Transportation To and From the Ship
Some cruise lines offer complementary transfers to or from the airport or into town on port days, but it is important to understand when you want to use these options and when you don't.
Sometimes these transfers are on a crowded bus and involve waiting for other people. In some situations (for example if you are traveling with a group), private transfers can be a lot better. I help my clients with these decisions and make all the arrangements. 
The Rhine River with Rotterdam, The Netherlands, in the background.
8. Know Your Deadlines
Make sure you know when your final payment is due (or you may lose your space).
In addition, dining and spa reservations and shore excursions should all be reserved as soon as you are permitted to book. But, when is that?
It depends on the cruise line. In most cases these items are available to book after you make your final payment, but sometimes it is before and some lines don't take reservations until you are on board.
I track all dates and deadlines, so you don't have to. I advise my clients when they need to book these items and monitor the dates for them. I handle all the details on my clients' behalf (final payments, dining and shore excursion reservations, and more).
I also know how to get my clients seated with their travel companions at meals (even when they are staying in different staterooms).

9. Understand the Travel Procedures  
It is important to understand the travel procedures required by law, and by your cruise line.
I advise my clients about the cruise line embarkation and disembarkation procedures, online check-in, and more. These processes vary by cruise line, so having an expert travel advisor to guide you is essential.

10. Rely on an Expert
Want an expert to guide you though this entire process and handle everything for you?
I offer a custom cruise experience that includes port guides, flights, seating on flights, transportation on the ground, pre- and post-accommodations, tours and activities, restaurant recommendations, and more! 
Contact me to book your next luxury cruise and find out how much better it is to have your own personal travel advisor who will provide you with white-glove service every step of the way. 
Even if you have been on a bunch of cruises, using me is better than reserving on your own because I specialize in luxury cruises. I’m an expert with deep knowledge of all of the finest cruise lines, and I save you time. I give you personal advice. I get you a better value, including perks. I have clout and connections. I customize your trip, and I’m a real human who delivers exceptional service and takes care of you before, during, and after your journey.
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Daria Dimitroff
Founder • Travel Advisor 
Journeys of a Lifetime
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